Help for Difficult Menstruation

A reader asked:

“I deal with pretty severe menstrual symptoms like heavy bleeding, pain, and vomiting, do you know of anything I can do to lesson these symptoms each month?”


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My answer:

First is that heavy bleeding and severe pain and cramping is not  normal and should be taken seriously. Two reproductive issues that can  contribute to such pain are endometriosis and fibroids, with endo being more common  in younger girls and women than fibroids. Endo very often causes pain that severe  due to the endometrial lining attaching to other areas of the gut. When the period begins, the other growths of endo bleed as well but  have nowhere to go other than be reabsorbed into the blood stream,  causing pain and nauseousness.

Eliminating junk and processed foods is key – especially sugar.  Making sure to consume enough fats and saturated fats is also important as they are needed to produce hormones. Cod Liver Oil can also help provide much needed omegas and vitamin D  Evening Primrose Oil can also be helpful.  Vitamin B complex can also help a lot (many women are low in B-1 and  B-6) in balancing hormones.

Using cloth pads instead of conventional can drastically reduce the  amount and length a woman bleeds.  Some women with endo find a lot of relief cutting out meat and animal  products due to the hormones that are in them. Sourcing meat is of  utmost importance, make sure to buy grassfed and organic meats.

Personal care products like lotions, face washes, shampoos should all  be looked at as they can mess with the balance of hormones.

I have a friend who teaches Iyengar yoga and has been able to help a  few women with issues like this when they practice certain yoga  postures. She always recommends the book “Yoga for a Healthy Cycle” by  Patricia Walden (& Linda Sparrowe) to get women started.

Foods can aggravate the reproductive system for a lot of women! Many with horrible  periods find that cutting wheat and dairy can help a lot – there is a  strong link between reproductive disorders and wheat sensitivities/celiac.

Charting your cycle is also really inportant! You”ll be able to figure out if there  is an issue with a part of the cycle and better ‘prescribe’ herbs and  such. Many herbs have estrongenic properties and could actually make  things worse if you’re already to high in estrogen, but then again they  could be super helpful if her body needs support in that area.

Herbs specific to cleansing the liver (which excretes excess hormones from the  body) or blood can be especially important though and shouldn’t mess  with hormones to much. Dandelion root for one is a great cleanser.

If she is overweight, and exercise regimen can be helpful, but every woman should always rest during the first few days of menstruation.

A lot of reproductive issues begin with the thyroid – http://www.stopthethyroidmadness.com/ (inversion yoga and a great
diet can also help the thyroid)

Castor oil packs a few times per week (not during menstruation) along with abdominal massage could be really beneficial if she has adhesions due to endo that are causing the pain.

You answered (via the Naturally Knocked Up Facebook Page)

  • Red raspberry leaf capsules/tea and vitex (chasteberry) capsules. Made a huge difference for me! I bought mine on Amazon.
  • Does she use mama cloth or diva cup? I know when I used them, my pains lessoned and my flow was a bit lighter. I had to wait for 6 months tho for it to do that.
  • I take Evening Primrose Oil. I have cramps about a week before my cycle starts that are severe to the point I just want to stay in bed all day. I started taking EPO this month and haven’t had a single cramp.
  • I stopped eating grains and sugar and all signs of PMS went away, no cramping and less flow.
  • Definitely Vitex (chasteberry) capsules!!
  • Cut back on the sugar and dairy, and choose only organic hormone free meats.
  • My cramping and flow both went down dramatically 6 or 7 years ago when i cut down (or slowly eliminated) sugar, baked goods, conventional dairy products, hydrogenated oils, HF Corn Syrup and added in a quality cod liver oil.
  • Cheyenne is the age-old remedy I know of the lessen the flow – for pain and discomfort, I would recommend diet change, calcium & magnesium (usually works in an hour or less), and tracking fertility symptoms.
  • I quite caffiene 4 years ago and overnight, my pain decreased by 80-90%; some months I have none. Before, I’d be doubled over in pain for hours and pain killers only took the edge off.
  • The homeopathic mag phos is what works for me.
  • Nourishing herbal infusions- rasp leaf, red clover, NETTLE, oatstraw- are all safe and super beneficial. If you’re having fertility issues, I’d hold off on the vitex until you’ve determined specifics. Exercise as well as rest. Heat. Rose bud/petal tea or tincture. Caffeine makes cramping worse.
  • Have a chiropractor adjust your psoas muscle.
  • Do you eat/take a lot of flax? when I started adding flax to my diet my cramps increased massively and so did flow…stopped and they disappeared immediately. Flax is really high in phytoestrogens.
  • Taking Maca really helped me!

Do you have any other tips for this reader?

*As always, consult your health care professional for a diagnosis or guidance in using natural therapies. This post is meant to inform you of options you may have, always research before trying something new.





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Readers Ask: a jumble of topics

Lauren asked:

Do you eat seaweed on a regular basis?

No. Never have. And while I have heard good things about it, it’s just one of those things I haven’t gotten around to fully researching yet. Or spending money on. :-)

She also asked:

What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?

Oh man. I’m a pretty boring person! I used to have all these crazy ideas of things to do (like skydiving) and then I got married, now have a couple of kids, and the thought worries me to death now.

And she asked:

Do you ferment any of the food you eat?

This was on my to do list over the summer and somehow it got away from me. I do truly believe that we should all be eating more fermented foods though!! I just haven’t had a lot of time to do it myself. Right now I do fermented beverages and will work on fermenting my garden goods next summer.

Molly G asked:

Are there any dietary/lifestye changes you really wish you could make but can’t right now?

Per the previous question, I really wish I could incorporate more fermented and cultured foods into our diet! Right now I have a hard enough time trying to find time to do what I do though. So I’m taking comfort in the fact that we have changed so much over the last 2 years and are already much, much healthier for it!

Colleen asked:

What are your thoughts on herbs for fertility? Such as evening primrose oil, chaste tree (vitex) or red clover?

While I believe nutrition is the first thing women should focus on (making sure they are eating a nutrient dense diet fit for their bodies) I also believe that herbs can definitely help! I love the fact that God gave us our own medicine in our backyards! I’ve recently started to look into herbology and homeopathy and am just amazed that these herbs and plants can have such strong medicinal properties! That being said, I think one also needs to research it thoroughly, because it is a natural medicine. Some herbs have side effects, others shouldn’t be consumed with other herbs, etc.

Readers Ask: I dunno -part 6? 7?

One Frugal Girl asked:

What do you most want your readers to gain from reading this blog?

That there is more out there than what doctors are willing to advise or do. Just because someone wears a white coat and went to school for a million years does not mean they know everything! While I have the utmost respect for them, they have studied one area – medicine. I want my readers to know that they themselves need to be an advocate for their health. I want them to think outside the box and research on their own! I want the subjects I write about here to be a jumping off point, not the end all cures. I just want people to know that better health can be achieved without tons of pills.

She also asked:

Why did you start this blog?

I started it because I never found exactly what I was looking for when I was googling about fertility. Most everything I read was medically based and I just didn’t want to go there. I truly feel that God lead me to a few certain bloggers/books at the exact time I needed, to read their information, and I’m just hoping to pass that on.

Plus, I tend to like to teach what I know and pass on advice. But a lot of people don’t like to hear it, or take it! So this is also an outlet for me. A way for me to share what I’ve learned to be truth and then peopl can take it or leave it. And I never have to see the eye rolls!

Tracy asked:

Have you ever had a miscarriage? I know this is super personal, but I recently had one and it’s been a huge struggle. It took a long time for us to get pregnant, then we did for the first time ever, only to lose the baby.

First may I just say how very sorry I am for your loss. For me the loss of a baby is unimaginable. I have never experienced a miscarriage to date. May you rest in God’s peace and comfort and know that even though your baby is no longer with you, you completed a great work. You were able to provide for that little one until God was ready to call him home to Glory! A home in eternity where now God holds that little one just as he’s holding you.

Kristin asked:

Do you have any favorite recipes using bulgur?

Nope. Actually that’s one of the things that are on my “to try” list! If anyone has some – send them my way!

Readers Ask: part 7

bellazdada asked:
Do you personally know a lot of people interested in health and nutrition? It seems like most people I know don’t take their health seriously.

A year ago I knew absolutely no one who ate like I did. At least not in real life. Most of my friends are pretty mainstream actually. A couple of them know a lot but have yet to make that plunge. A few blog friends were all I really had. Then I got hooked up with a local group and LOVE THEM!!! I’ve been learning so much and it’s so nice to be able to have like minded people to discuss things with. You know, someone that won’t look at you like you have 2 heads when you mention kombucha or kefir or raw milk. And my sister is now totally into the food/health thing too so that’s a lot of fun when we can bounce ideas and info off each other! The rest of my family though still thinks we’re pretty crazy most the time. :-)

Check to see if you have a Wise Traditions chapter near you for some “hippie kin”!

Readers Ask: part 6

LaurenS asked:
How much butter do you eat daily?

Lots. :-) I slather it on everything basically. On my bread and most definitely on my veggies. Though each day is so very different, so it’s hard to give a daily average for me, especially since I don’t pay that much attention to it. Best way I can put it, is that I buy one pound per week! That covers all my spreading and baking.

hnlberry asked:
Where do you find recipes?

Here’s a basic list of my “searchable” recipe sites. Normally I do change them up a bit to serve our nutritional/dietary needs though and make them a bit more nourishing.

AllRecipes – A great searchable site for all kinds of recipes. Includes ratings from those who have tried certain recipes which is helpful to know which ones to try. My most used recipe site, and I just modify to adjust for our nutritional standards.

RecipeZaar – Another searchable site for recipes.

Tammy’s Recipes – A blog run by a stay at home mom of 3. She posts some great, easy, recipes.

The Nourishing Gourmet – Lots of Real/ Whole /Nourishing foods recipes!

Sue Gregg – This site includes nutritious and nourishing recipes.

Real Asian Made Simple – Has a great listing of some easy to make Asian foods.

The Pioneer Woman – Seriously, this woman can cook! I personally love her mac and cheese.

Rachel Ray – I love to browse her recipes.

Jaime asked:
Where do you shop locally?

Around here we have a store called Meijer. Think Super Walmart but regional and not so clouded in controversy! It’s where I pick up my odds and ends like weekly snacks for my husband. We also have a local health food store where I’ll pick up eggs if our farm is out of them as well as organic sugars, sea salt, etc if I can’t get all the way to a Natural Foods wharehouse where I buy all my bulk items. During the summer I also try to only buy my produce at farmers markets. Other than that, I pick up milk, eggs, honey, meat, and some fruits and veggies at the farm where we have a goat share.